人有时候会满怀希望，认认真真去做一件事情，耗了时间和精力，在即将结果时却发现毫无意义。这是一种笨的表现还是没睡够觉？

以前读Master的时候就做过Myers-Briggs 的Type Indicator，这个是心理学家Carl Jung发明的，结果应该是一样的。不愧是目前公认最具权威的心理测试之一，结果还是比较准确的。谁有兴趣可以做做啊，下面是我的结果。

 

 

16 Personality Types   You are here
	ISTJ		ISFJ		ENTJ		ESTJ
	INTJ		INFJ		ENFP		ESFJ
	INTP		INFP		ENFJ		ESFP
	ISTP		ISFP		ENTP		ESTP

 

Introversion		Extraversion

Intuition		Sensing

Feeling		Thinking

Perceiving		Judging

Your love type

About 7% of the U.S. population possesses the combination of traits that make up this personality type.

Being an ISFJ, you can be the ultimate team player. This may be largely due to the deep and abiding loyalty you tend to exhibit toward the important people in your life. It can also be a result of the typical ISFJ philosophy that puts the needs of the group before your own desires. The bonds you share with people can run deep, so even those you don't see very often may be considered dear friends. Chances are, your loyalty and caring toward others is duly noted. It's no surprise that people naturally gravitate to such a warm spirit.

In relationships, you appear to use both your head and your heart. It can pain you to see those close to you unhappy and you'll often go out of your way to take care of others. However, in your case, being caring doesn't necessarily mean being gushy or overly sentimental. More often, you believe that your actions will simply speak for themselves.

When it comes to your relationships, in general you like to be needed but aren't typically the needy type yourself. Be aware that your loyal, caring nature may sometimes make you stay in relationships longer than you should. Fortunately, most times your head will kick in before you really get in too deep. ISFJs like you are known for being generous with your time and spirit. You'll often expend your energy seeking ways to make life better for everyone around you. Such efforts are to be admired.

What makes you a good partner and friend?

	Your reliability makes you a source of comfort to others
	You make everyone feel special
	You know how to be sensitive to other people's feelings
	You're not the kind to leave when the going gets tough

So now that you know about your personality and the many special qualities that you possess, it's time to learn which other types you're most compatible with in life and love. You'll also find out why those types are more suited for you than the others. Ready to find out who you connect with best?

Your most compatible types
Because you're a Sensing Feeler (SF), you're someone who can be there for others emotionally while still maintaining your pragmatic side. SFs like you are known for having a wonderful head for details. You're not one to forget a birthday or flake on a lunch date. Because of this mix of traits, you typically appreciate those who are emotionally in tune with you and supportive of your needs. As a result, you're most compatible with Intuitive Feelers (NFs). NFs are creative, expansive thinkers who can help you appreciate the big picture when you get bogged down in the daily grind. An SF/NF pairing often results in a caring, tuned-in relationship. There are four SF/NF matches for you: ENFJ, INFJ, ENFP, INFP.

	ENFJ		INFJ
	ENFP		INFP

		How to best get along with intuitive feelers One of an Intuitive Feeler's main strengths lies in their ability to be nurturing. They can really enjoy taking care of others, but they also want to be well cared for themselves. As a result, NFs can be quite sensitive if they feel they aren't being cared for or appreciated. Receiving criticism can sometimes be hard for NFs. There may be times when you make a comment or suggestion meant to be helpful, only to be met with your NF's hurt and anger. Understand that NFs often try very hard to please others, so your comments are likely to be seen as a personal attack. In this kind of a situation, don't add fuel to the fire by reacting with anger yourself. Instead, try to soften your approach to let your Intuitive Feeler know how much you appreciate them. The next time you have a critical comment to make, do it gently. Try not to make it about who your NF is. Instead, focus on the situation. Remember that nobody really likes hearing critical comments, and this is especially true for your sensitive NF. Learn this well, and you will find yourself with a happy, supportive friend or partner.

Your Heart Is Blue

Love is a doing word for you. You know it's love when you treat each other well. You are a giving lover, but you don't give too much. You expect something in return. Your flirting style: Friendly Your lucky first date: Lunch at an outdoor cafe Your dream lover: Is both generous and selfish What you bring to relationships: Loyalty

 

          傍晚雷雨又加冰雹，但很快又见到了夕阳最后一眼。晚上和姐姐做了一顿具好吃的面条，吃的两个人肚皮圆圆然后竟然又抱起了点心盒子，&*^*(*^&*^(*#$%#

          今天晚上什么都不想做，看了两集我猜，被那个可爱的中年男人逗得前仰后合之后取了信回来，发现银行寄的一堆不知为何物的东东，深感到作为一个文盲的悲哀。

        在网上飘荡一阵，没有那个整日冲我叫嚣“射线头”的家伙的大头在眼前晃，真的很不适应。不知道现在在飞机上做着什么美梦呢?有没有经过我头顶的天空？

          唉，好好的一晚上又被我荒废了，罪过罪过......

妈妈的生日，祝愿妈妈健健康康，平平安安，笑口常开，青春常驻。

         这里似乎荒芜很久了，的确需要一些滋润。走之前一位朋友说，你的blog又要开始频频更新了。可惜的是，直到今天才“应验”。

         很高兴这几天都是很sunny的日子。蔚蓝的天空，耀眼的阳光，时而肆虐的冷冷的风，开始学着习惯这一切。看着同事们一个个忙得昏天黑地的，再看看堆了一柜子的待看的资料俨然成了压在心里的沉重的石头，anyway,学着去适应吧。

         原以为这辈子再不会学数学了，没想到现在还要和它打交道，没办法，硬着头皮上吧，补高数，补概率，补大学没学好侥幸过关的功课。看来人生永远不要欠债，因为不知道什么时候就会让你还上。

        住的房子明亮宽敞，视野开阔。每当华灯初上，可以浏览城市的夜景，的确让人心驰神往，毕竟是用400多欧的月租换来的，想想还真的很是心疼。

        其他一切，还好。

       当荒芜遭遇甘霖，又多一篇毫无逻辑和美感的杂文。

       也只好如此。

        这两日收拾东西，找到了以前写的游记，没想到隔了快半年才让它重见天日。这篇游记写于比利时通往荷兰的火车上。因为当时恰逢火车出问题，车站又只有法语和荷兰语广播。幸好遇到好心的比利时人为我指路，甚至专程将我送到目的地，心内感激不尽，特留游记一篇，以示纪念。

 

比利时游记

 

        在从巴黎到布鲁塞尔的客车上我一直昏昏欲睡。等我清醒时，已经置身于布鲁塞尔的高楼大厦中了。我心下疑惑，这和想象中的古典质朴的城市形象大相径庭。难道我坐错了方向，来到了一个摩登城市？接下来2日不到的游览颠覆了我对它的认识。有别于传统的散发着古老尊荣的欧洲城市，这是一个生机勃勃的地方，随处可见的建筑工地证明它正在与时俱进的发展。一方面它完好的保存了城市的中世纪古典风貌，另一面的它先进的基础设施建设提醒人们布鲁塞尔没有落伍于时代。两者完美融洽的结合，并不凸显哪一方，也不隐没另一方。
        市中心的大广场是最吸引游人的地方。场地并不开阔，但围绕在它四周的巴洛克建筑不能不令人赞叹真真精美绝伦。大文豪雨果曾赋予它极高的赞誉，说它是世界上最美丽的广场。市政厅的尖顶高耸入云。各色鲜花装点着楼面令古香古色的广场更加迷人。广场四周分散开来若干条小巷，窄窄的通道，鳞比栉次的小店琳琅满目。著名的比利时巧克力和蕾丝织品随处可见。一巷口的墙壁上刻有精美的铜质浮雕，传说中能带来好运的死神和天使的铜像已在无数游人的手掌抚摸下金光闪亮，熠熠生辉。
        对于我来说，一边沿小巷漫步浏览街边小店，一边品尝着比利时著名小吃waffet的香甜美味真是莫大的享受。不多久就来到撒尿小童铜像。像不高，不足两尺。我去的那日恰逢比利时传统节日，人们为他穿上红白相间分外鲜艳的民族服装。红绸的帽子更显得他调皮可爱。很早以前就读过这个小英雄的故事。机灵的孩子用小便浇灭了敌人安置的炸药的导火索从而救得了全城百姓的性命。比利时人民为了纪念他特意塑了这尊铜像。事实上这只是撒尿小童来历的一种说法而已。另一个版本演绎的是一个调皮的孩子。无论是小英雄也好，小捣蛋也罢，这个可爱的孩子的的确确吸引了全世界不同肤色种族的人们前来“瞻仰”，也成为了比利时人心目中的骄傲。
        除此之外，比利时皇宫，五十周年公园和欧盟总部的建筑都很壮观。特别是悬挂在凯旋门中间的巨型国旗迎风飘展，连我这个外国人经过时都有种肃然起敬的感觉。原子球是布鲁塞尔另一景，自然不容错过。一个被放大了1650亿倍的铁原子赫然屹立于眼前的那种震撼让我有几分目瞪口呆。我去的时候原子球表面正在清洁，这是一个昂贵且耗时的工程，但等修缮竣工之时必能招徕更多的游人，却也值得。
       我在布鲁塞尔参观的最后一站是漫画博物馆里的书店。我是为了寻找“丁丁”而来。知道《丁丁历险记》还是很小的时候，妈妈给我买的一本漫画《法老的雪茄烟》，从此以后对它爱不释手，至今完好保存。在这里终于见到了全套的漫画书，有丁丁和小狗雪花在中国，埃及，美国及世界各地的故事。还有小的工艺品，可惜价格不菲，小小一个丁丁像动辄上百欧元，只好留下照片为念。
        在布鲁塞尔短短两日有很多收获。这是我生平第一次独自一人的旅行，而且是在一个完全陌生的国度。这个城市带给我最深印象的其实是这里的人们。比利时人十分友好，他们主动热情的帮助陌生的旅人，在我遇到困难时雪中送炭，他们的质朴善良深深打动了我，这种品质能保存在一个大都市的人们身上实在难能可贵。布鲁塞尔的地铁和火车都不设防，只有自动打票机默默守在一旁，永远不会揭发“作弊者”，没有眼睛，只凭心。可见这个发达社会，人的素质可见一斑。
      别了，比利时，别了，美丽的布鲁塞尔还有善良的人们。我是你的一个匆匆过客，可如同漆黑夜空中绚丽的焰火，你曾在我的生命中绽放，永远难忘。